Happy August, It’s me again. Here to ask you to get uncomfortable, look at things differently so

you can see so many things that are around you that you never noticed!

Understanding and appreciating other people's perspectives is not just a social nicety; it's a

skill that can profoundly enrich our lives and society as a whole. Do you still say and do things

based on when you were 13?18? 25? 40? Etc? Do you have the same beliefs and perspectives

from any of those ages? In today's interconnected world, where diversity is celebrated but

misunderstandings and conflicts still arise, the ability to see things from another's point of view

is increasingly invaluable. Here, we explore why this skill is so important and how it can positively impact both individuals and communities. Then a couple tools on how to do it!

At its core, seeing other people's perspectives fosters empathy. Empathy, the ability to understand and share the feelings of another, is crucial for forming meaningful connections and

relationships. When we make an effort to see the world through someone else's eyes, we begin

to appreciate their experiences, challenges, and emotions. This understanding lays the

groundwork for empathy, allowing us to respond more compassionately and supportively in our

interactions.

Each person's perspective is shaped by their unique life experiences, beliefs, and cultural

background. By seeking out and acknowledging different viewpoints, we expand our own

understanding of the world. This broader perspective helps us break free from narrow-

mindedness and biases, opening doors to new ideas and possibilities. It challenges us to

question assumptions and consider alternative ways of thinking, ultimately enriching our own

worldview.

Many conflicts arise from misunderstandings or a lack of communication. When we actively

listen to and try to understand another person's perspective, we can often find common ground

or alternative solutions that were previously overlooked. This approach promotes constructive

dialogue and compromise, fostering peaceful resolutions instead of escalating tensions. In

personal relationships, workplace dynamics, and global politics alike, the ability to see multiple

perspectives is key to building harmony and cooperation.

In decision-making processes, considering diverse viewpoints can lead to more informed and

well-rounded choices. By weighing different perspectives, we gain insights into potential

consequences, risks, and benefits that might otherwise be overlooked. This inclusive approach

minimizes blind spots and biases, resulting in more effective and equitable outcomes. Whether

in business strategy, public policy, or everyday choices, embracing diverse perspectives

enhances the quality and fairness of decisions made.

Healthy relationships thrive on mutual understanding and respect. When we demonstrate an

interest in understanding other's perspectives, we signal our willingness to connect and

collaborate. This fosters trust and strengthens bonds, whether among family members, friends,

colleagues, or communities. By valuing and integrating diverse viewpoints, we create inclusive

environments where everyone feels heard and valued, fostering a sense of belonging and unity.

On a personal level, actively seeking out and considering different perspectives is a catalyst

for growth. It encourages us to step outside our comfort zones, challenge our assumptions, and

expand our intellectual and emotional capacities. Embracing diversity of thought fosters

resilience and adaptability, equipping us with valuable skills for navigating an increasingly

complex and interconnected world. It encourages a lifelong commitment to learning and self-

improvement, enhancing both our personal fulfillment and contribution to society.

So how do we do it? How do we see other people’s perspective? Are you ready? Really

ready? WHEN someone says something to you that you totally disagree with or when that

someone acts in a way that rubs you the wrong way, before you say anything OR do anything,

STOP, find the strength to ask them questions about their reasons for what is making them say

or do what they are doing. Then, listen with an open mind. Is it possible they could teach you

something? Is it a cultural difference? I used to say yes sir and yes ma’am as a show of respect

to any adult. Then I was yelled at several times for calling women ma’am. It was an insult to

them. Their perception was the exact opposite of what I was attempting to do by saying ‘yes

ma’am. Could an example like this be showing up in your life?

A second tool, when you do or say something and get a response very different from what you

expected; stop and ask the person if you can start over. Let the person know what you were

attempting to do and ask how you can say that or do that action in a way that THEY receive the

message or action in the right perspective to them. Learn by asking. It will be uncomfortable

and then feel great! Wouldn’t you love it if someone did the above actions to you?

In conclusion, the value of seeing other people's perspectives cannot be overstated. It

underpins empathy, enriches our understanding of the world, facilitates conflict resolution,

enhances decision-making, strengthens relationships, and promotes personal growth. In a world where diversity is a hallmark of progress and innovation, this skill is not just beneficial but

essential. By embracing and celebrating diverse perspectives, we not only enrich our own lives

but also contribute to a more inclusive, compassionate, and harmonious society. As we continue to navigate the complexities of our global community, let us remember the transformative power of seeing through the eyes of others. Ask, listen and be open minded as much as possible. Most people just want to be understood. Don’t you?

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Next month we talk about the power of great questions and how to do it AND what questions

NOT to ask